“The thing is, not getting an erection is so much more than just a physical thing for men. It’s central to their whole identity”
Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist
I am particularly interested in the impact of sexual problems in relationships. I have extensive experience in working with individuals and couples across all sexualities.
I currently live in a rural area of Scotland.
On a usual day, I might have a couple of client appointments. I have a clinical supervision practice as well, where I supervise other therapists. I also teach both face to face and online across all aspects of generic therapy and sex therapy.
Back off, talk to your new partner, take the pressure off. Develop the relationship and work with your partner to make sex pleasurable for you both (without an erection), whilst also getting some professional help.
The big smile that tells me treatment has worked before a chap actually tells me. The joy is immense.
What I like most is the challenge of finding a solution to the problem. That might mean a lot of delving and uncovering to find out what set the problem up in the first place. I then find the best possible outcome for that person.
Well, before Mojo was Mojo, two lovely young men (Angus and Xander) contacted me and asked if they could take me out to lunch and talk about erections! And I have been involved ever since.
The thing is, not getting an erection is so much more than just a physical thing for men. It’s central to their whole identity.
Most people - especially men - don’t know how their bodies work or how things like their minds, their bodies, and their desires link up. So anything that helps relieve stress, unhappiness, and despair has to be a good option. And Mojo offers exactly that.
I am also a great believer that medications should be the last resort, not the first. The Mojo approach helps upskill people with techniques that can be applied across a lifespan. It's the ethical, eco, green approach to sexual difficulties!
They are all excellent so it would be difficult to say which is my favorite.
My party trick is reciting a monolog about the development of the vibrator.